Sorry I've been MIA. I have a good reason and I'll post it soon.
For now, please go read this post my sister wrote and comment on it. The more people comment on her post, the better. The woman she's talking about is someone I also know and love, and perhaps your comments can make a difference. Incidentally, the man she's talking about ALSO reads my blog, though he's always denied it. I stand by my sister's assessments and am pleased with her courage to write about it, as well as tackle such a complicated and tragic subject.
Be advised that the post isn't for the faint of heart. It might make your blood boil.